fear of getting attached

Fear of getting Attached

Sometimes you invest a lot of your time in people. You put in your all just to try and ensure their happiness.

But you know what?

People change. Just like seasons. They are complex and they leave without even saying goodbye.

I wonder why can’t people be consistent?

One day you are important to someone and the very next moment as you know they move on like you never mattered. They are sweet to you until they get what they want and what follows is a bitter goodbye and sometimes not even that.
I just don’t get it how can someone promise you a lifetime in one moment and in another act like a stranger, like no promises were ever made.
They love you one day and the next, they stop talking abruptly and just like that stop caring.

I have experienced people changing when their purpose, desires and orders are not fulfilled.

No, I’m not just talking about romantic relationships but the person could also be a friend or a relative.

I believe that our generation is insecure and afraid of being replaced easily, of being hurt, and of showing affection to others just because of this inconsistency of others.

Thanks to these experiences we all have trust issues and this generation has become cold and distant. We require a lot of reassurance when we are around others, we struggle with transitions, we start running away from people, we avoid attachments, and we fear getting close to others.

But guess what?
You just need to find your people, who are consistent with their effort and always show how much they care about you. Even after they’ve gotten to know you well, they keep assuring you that they won’t leave you no matter what, and they’ve proven it through your journey. They are the ones who love you unconditionally. They are the ones you should never, ever let go of.

Because it is rightly said –
“Fears may come. You may drown, but the belief that the hand is always there for you, makes you to get triumph over your fears.”

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